By Deborah Roberts
Introduction
Living in London is both inspiring and challenging. It’s a city full of opportunities, but also one of the most expensive places in the world. For a long time, I felt like I was simply “chasing” money — earning, spending, repeating. The turning point came when I realised that personal finance isn’t only about numbers in a spreadsheet. It’s also about motivation, habits, and the way we talk to ourselves every day.
1. Define a Personal “Why”
Saving for the sake of saving rarely works. I found motivation when I tied my financial goals to something meaningful:
- a dream of owning a flat in London,
- the ability to travel without debt,
- and the comfort of knowing I could support my family in emergencies.
When your “why” is clear, every pound saved feels like a step towards freedom, not restriction.
2. Small Wins Build Big Momentum
Early on, I made the mistake of setting only big goals (like saving £20,000). The problem? They felt impossible. What changed everything was celebrating small wins: saving £200 in a month, paying off one credit card, or cooking at home three nights a week. Each small victory gave me the energy to keep going.
3. Tools That Keep Motivation Alive
I’m a big believer in using systems that remove friction:
- Budgeting apps like Monzo and Yolt help me visualise where my money goes.
- Automatic transfers mean I save before I even have a chance to spend.
- A journal keeps me accountable — every Sunday, I write what worked and what didn’t.
Motivation fades, but tools create consistency.
4. Reward Discipline, Not Just Results
One trick that worked for me: rewarding myself for consistency, not just outcomes. If I stuck to my budget for a week, I treated myself to something small, like a nice coffee or a book. This helped me see financial discipline as something enjoyable, not punishing.
5. Learn From Mistakes Without Shame
I’ve overspent, just like everyone else. What keeps me motivated is refusing to treat mistakes as failures. Instead, I ask: What triggered this overspending? Stress? Lack of planning? Each mistake becomes data, not defeat.
6. Energy Fuels Motivation
Money management takes mental clarity. I noticed that when I slept poorly or skipped exercise, my finances suffered too. Yoga, walks along the Thames, and better nutrition gave me energy — and with energy came stronger discipline.
Conclusion
Motivation in personal finance is not a one-time spark. It’s a lifestyle of small steps, clear goals, supportive tools, and self-compassion. Today, I no longer feel like I’m chasing money — I feel like I’m guiding it.
And the best part? Each day I wake up with more energy to keep building the life I want.